I'm an adherent, and exponent, of Agape, brotherly love. As such, I maintain my own personal practice of Love, which means that, besides continuing my study of Love, I actively attempt to love everyone, everywhere, all the time.
Any mistake that I make, therefore, that pertains to others is likely more a genuine error than a product of the nefarious or negative side of ego. In other words, such a mistake would not represent a lack of active concern for other people.
I'm even regularly immersed in a process of active moral deliberation regarding how to respond to persons who have hurt me or my family.
I strongly suggest that you begin your own personal practice of Love. Contact me, below, for assistance, as required or desired.